"Families are as diverse as individuals. The activities they do together vary, but one thing is true for all of them: "In family relationships love is really spelled t-i-m-e, time." Whether family members get together for scheduled outings, sharing interests, or serving others, these gatherings strengthen relationships that can be eternal."
President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Flying Home



Family,

Well, we are flying home from our wonderful and very memorable vacation/cruise!  Mom/Donell did great, but it had a very frightening start!

As you have all probably heard, mom/Donell had a Grand Mal type of seizure as we were flying to Tampa, Florida.  We had been in the air for about two and a half hours of our four hour flight.  We had been talking with our friends that were traveling with us and then we settled in for a quick nap before landing in Tampa.  I was dosing in and out of sleep, when I looked over at mom/Donell.  She was very ridged with her arms were bent at the elbows with her hands clinched in a fist close to her face.  She was unconscious, not breathing and very purple. It looked like she was dying.  I grabbed her face and started shaking it back and forth while saying Donell, Donell.  She was totally non-responsive. When it was apparent that I could not bring her too, I got up and went back to the flight attendants to let them know that my wife was having medical problems.

When we got back to mom/Donell she was flailing/waving her arms around like she was off balance and she was kind of wild-eyed and mumbling. The flight attendants got on the PA system and asked if there were any doctors or nurses, etc., on board for a medical emergency - no one responded. The flight attendants started putting cold towels on her head and bringing oxygen and an emergency medical kit that they had. They had also made contact with emergency medical people on the ground and were telling them what had happened and what was going on.

Finally a young man came up and said that he was an Emergency Room nurse. He sat down next to mom/Donell and took her blood pressure, pulse, etc.  He did standard testing for stroke, etc. Donell was very, very weak and felt nauseated and still a little out of it, although she could answer questions. The flight attendants were trying to give her club soda, but the nurse said to bring her some apple juice (sometimes seizures can be brought on by low blood sugar). The nurse also asked for some alcohol wipes and told mom to smell them.  This did make her feel a little better. They continued to take her blood pressure and monitor her other vital signs and continued to look for signs of stroke, etc.  When it appeared that mom/Donell was stable, everyone went back to their normal activities. We were now about 40 minutes from landing in Tampa.  Mom/Donell threw up three times and was extremely weak.

When we were landing, they told everyone to remain seated and that emergency medical personnel would be coming on board to remove a passenger. As soon as the plane door opened medical people came rushing in with a wheelchair and transported mom/Donell off of the plane (she was so weak that she could not even stand). There were lots of police and medical people waiting in the terminal for her. As soon as mom/Donell got off the plane they put her on a gurney/stretcher and started checking out her vital signs, put her on oxygen and were doing other emergency tests.  The police also wanted her ID to run a criminal background check on her and to see who this person really was... Thankfully, mom/Donell checkout okay and wasn't a criminal.  Once the emergency medical response team had check her out, they immediately rush mom/Donell and me to a waiting ambulance. Our friends who were traveling with us were stunned and wondering what was going to happen.  I had about one second to tell them that I would call and give them an update.

We never got our luggage, they just rushed us by ambulance to the Emergency Room of a major hospital in the area.  They immediately took her into a private room in the ER and started doing lots and lots of tests.  Mom/Donell could communicate, she was just very weak and a little bit out of it. After some tests they took her into x-ray and then in for a CAT scan.  When she came out of the CAT scan, I noticed a marked improvement in her mental alertness. The doctor came in and I again went over what had happened and that mom/Donell had just finished her last radiation treatment the day before and that she had recently been diagnosed with Parkinson's disease and was taking medications for that. Mom/Donell started telling the doctor that we were departing on a cruise the next day and she really wanted to go on the cruise.  The doctor was very kind and understanding, but said that she would not be able to go on the cruise - however, he said that he would pass the information on to the neurologist that would be caring for her. We were told that more tests were scheduled for the next morning. Donell, never stopped telling all of the medical staff that she really, really wanted to go on the cruise.  After several hours in the emergency room and many tests, they admitted her into the hospital and took us up to her room.  She was still very, very weak! The doctor told us that during a seizure like the one she had, all of your muscles become extremely tense and it is like you are having a very intense workout and so afterwards you are really weak and tired.

After mom/Donell was settled into her room, she wanted me to go to the airport and get our bags and go check into the hotel. I checked with the nurses and they thought that would be best - I gave the nurses my cell number with strict instructions to call if there was any change in her condition.  Even though I repeatedly told mom/Donell that the cruise was the least of my worries and that my only concern was for her health, she never stopped telling all of the medical staff about the cruise and how badly she wanted to go.

I got our bags at the airport and checked into the hotel, it was then that the emotion of what had happened really hit me - for a time it looked like mom/Donell was going to die on the plane.  A thought I could not even bear to think of!

I called mom early the next morning and the first thing she started to tell me is how we could just check her out of the hospital without the doctors permission and she could go on the cruise (wonder where she got an idea like that)... I told her, that is NOT going to happen!  She was feeling really good and just wanted to get out!

When I came to the hospital that morning it seemed like everyone knew about mom/Donell and the cruise and they were doing everything they could to try and get all of the tests done quickly, so she could go on the cruise.

The neurologist had come in and examined her in the morning and said that if all of the tests checked okay, including an MRI - she could go. He put all of the tests in STAT (rush).

Everything came out okay and we called a cab and rushed to get our bags at the hotel (I really didn't think we would be going on the cruise and I was still very concerned about her health - only a few hours earlier, I thought she was going to die on an airplane - but Donell, would hear nothing about not going) we rushed to the cruise terminal (our friends were already onboard) and we were one of the last ones to board the ship! Just made it, with a couple if minutes to spare! 

Mom/Donell said that she was feeling fine when she went to sleep on the plane and the next thing she knew was when she woke up to people all around her asking her how she doing (and silly questions like what is your name, how many fingers am I holding up, when is you birthday, what are your children's names, etc.) Seizures are not necessarily dangerous by them self, but since it was her first one ever, they always want to make certain that it was not caused by a brain tumor, stroke, etc.

She seems to have no ill effects and we had a truly wonderful time on the cruise!  We did zip-lines through the jungle, went snorkeling on a barrier reef, held and played with money's and beautiful MacCaw parrots, swam with stingrays in the middle of the ocean and went swimming with, and riding on dolphins, floated down a river that was inside a giant cave system.  We did lots of other really fun things, to many to list!!!

We love you all so very much and we will be so happy to be back with all of you - safe, sound and alive! We are truly BLESSED!

(I am writing this from the plane as we fly home - they have Wi-Fi - mom/Donell is doing fine... So far...)